There is a fog that surrounds us and dims / transforms how we perceive others as well as ourselves. This fog seems to be made up from our own personal history - experiences, imprints, responses, .... This fog is particularly manifest in personal relationships - how we respond and react to each other, trigger each other. It is really difficult to see another clearly through this fog. We don't know what is in another's mind. Why are they doing or saying what troubles us? The signal that comes through our fog of self can invoke our trigger points. The density of the fog can be a measure of how easily we get triggered. Being able to lessen the opacity of that fog can be a lifetime journey.
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